Is this a Narcissist Paradox
Science has conducted myriad experiments that demonstrate the power of “pain” to strengthen the bond.This explains the paradox of relationships. If your partner mistreats you in all kinds of emotional or physical ways, you run the risk of getting deeply hooked in.
I recommend this web site, the information I provided below are direct quotes from her web site. The goal of her website is to give support to people who are facing problems in their relationship related to cheating, abuse and narcissism. She has a background in neuroscience and behavioral sciences and I am currently doing brain research related to these topics in university in my home country.http://www.cheating-infidelity.com/Home/
Recovery After Cheating and Narcissism - How to recover and heal your heart after experiencing cheating or narcissism in a relationship. Healing after a relationship with a mental abuser.
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Why Psychopaths are so hard to spot
From the site - wakingyouup
different articles and stories that might explain how disordered personalities might blend into society whereas those who are neurotic maybe be labelled with illnesses they don’t even have.
"I personally never knew, honestly did not know my ex was a narcissist, I thought they were easy to spot or at least they wouldn’t be in the mental health field…
I was wrong!" Author
AnonymousJun 26, 2011 06:33 PM
I grew up in a home of a addict mother who had different kinds of people over at all times of night i remember hearing screams and things breaking coming from her room 6 years old i couldnt protect her but i wanted to be as close to her as i could i sneak into the living room hide behind couch and cuddled the wall knowing my mom was being hurt right on the other side of the wall.. when i was this young i never actually got to see the fights just the after affects when i was 12 i witnessed the most tramatizing thing there fight got out of line mom actually came out of her room i rember thinking mom is actually leaving this pos she left for 10 min came back to say sorry to the ass who hurt her and BAM he snapped pushing her hitting her threw her off the back porch and continued to throw blows i never seen it before this and omg anger,fright and confussion ran threw me all at once i looked around and saw a mag flash light and grabbed it i used all the force in me to hit him back of his head nope didnt even faze him he turned on me i took off running to the next door neighbors bare foot thinking the hole time how am i gonna tell them about this do i tell truth or stretch it a little i decidejust ask use phone i called 911 and cops picked me up at neighbor house to take me home and the officers told me that my mom denied him touching her so there is nothing they can do i hated her at first never understand how she loved this man who would eventually kill her if she stayed ..................... 6 yrs later i meet this wonderful man who adopted my fatherless baby boy and moved us in he was all ever dreamed of 7 months into the relation ship he has some control issues hits the wall beside me when yelling at me for what i dont know calls me dumb cunt stupid bitch fat whore daily and i still love him .WHAT!!!!! he dont put his hands on me he is a great man how come my mom was so stupid to be with a man who abused her well august 22 2006 we say our i dos 4 months later who is this man infront of me why is he stranglin me till i see black why is there bllood allover got so many pains going threw me right now what do i do go back to him for 5 years i put up with several different types of abuse with him till i leave him well he wasnt dont hurting me he fucks my best friend of 7 years and hooks up with her now i see my love and my bestie un seperable it kills me to see them she is a snake in grass and he is just him
I grew up in a home of a addict mother who had different kinds of people over at all times of night i remember hearing screams and things breaking coming from her room 6 years old i couldnt protect her but i wanted to be as close to her as i could i sneak into the living room hide behind couch and cuddled the wall knowing my mom was being hurt right on the other side of the wall.. when i was this young i never actually got to see the fights just the after affects when i was 12 i witnessed the most tramatizing thing there fight got out of line mom actually came out of her room i rember thinking mom is actually leaving this pos she left for 10 min came back to say sorry to the ass who hurt her and BAM he snapped pushing her hitting her threw her off the back porch and continued to throw blows i never seen it before this and omg anger,fright and confussion ran threw me all at once i looked around and saw a mag flash light and grabbed it i used all the force in me to hit him back of his head nope didnt even faze him he turned on me i took off running to the next door neighbors bare foot thinking the hole time how am i gonna tell them about this do i tell truth or stretch it a little i decidejust ask use phone i called 911 and cops picked me up at neighbor house to take me home and the officers told me that my mom denied him touching her so there is nothing they can do i hated her at first never understand how she loved this man who would eventually kill her if she stayed ..................... 6 yrs later i meet this wonderful man who adopted my fatherless baby boy and moved us in he was all ever dreamed of 7 months into the relation ship he has some control issues hits the wall beside me when yelling at me for what i dont know calls me dumb cunt stupid bitch fat whore daily and i still love him .WHAT!!!!! he dont put his hands on me he is a great man how come my mom was so stupid to be with a man who abused her well august 22 2006 we say our i dos 4 months later who is this man infront of me why is he stranglin me till i see black why is there bllood allover got so many pains going threw me right now what do i do go back to him for 5 years i put up with several different types of abuse with him till i leave him well he wasnt dont hurting me he fucks my best friend of 7 years and hooks up with her now i see my love and my bestie un seperable it kills me to see them she is a snake in grass and he is just him
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